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Life Shaper:
Your Visual Decision Maker

Why is it so easy to give great  advice to others, but so hard to figure out your own next move?

You're not indecisive.

You're overwhelmed by options.


You've always been the capable one.
The problem-solver. The one friends call when they need clarity. Your advice is spot-on because you can see their situations objectively.

But when it's your own conundrum? Suddenly the path can take too many turns. Your brilliant mind, which serves everyone else so well, no longer knows the right direction. 

Have you been here before? 

  • Staring at the ceiling at 3am, mulling the same worries and what-ifs as last night
  • Researching every possible angle online instead of actually making the choice
  • Postponing other life decisions until you figure out this "big one" first
  • Paralyzed by the question "What if I choose wrong?"

The Problem: You can't get perspective because you have zero distance from the decision.  

It is heckin' easy to solve someone else's problem when you're on the outside looking in.

Inside your beautiful brain of yours, all your options jumble together. Especially if you struggle with focus or working memory. 

And traditional pros and cons lists? 

Too linear, Friend. Your challenge is more complex than "longest list wins."

If this continues: You'll stay stuck in analysis paralysis while opportunities pass you by, or you'll make hasty decisions just to escape the mental exhaustion.

The Solution:

Get your choices out of your head and onto paper.

But instead of recreating the tangle inside your brain on the page, Brandy Agerbeck leads you through making a drawing that helps you clearly think through your decision from 6 different angles. 

Your Visual Decision Maker gives you the external structure to disrupt mental loops, sort out your options, and make your decision once and for all. 

  • Zero drawing skills required
  • Simple materials
  • Easy to follow
  • Repeatable process

And while this example shows 2 choices, this technique works for decisions more complex that this or that.

Why the Visual Decision Maker Works:

Your brain thinks in connections, not lists.

When you empty your brain on the page with using these clear frameworks, patterns emerge that linear thinking misses.

You'll suddenly see how your timeline concerns connect to your resource limitations, or how one person's opinion links to a deeper value you hold.

These spatial relationships between ideas create "aha moments" that a Pro/Con list can't generate.

The visual layout lets you spot contradictions, discover priorities, and notice what you've been overlooking.

Your body knows things your mind hasn't figured out yet.

The physical act of drawing pulls you out of your head and into your body.

As you map out your decision, you'll notice your shoulders relaxing when you consider one option, or your stomach tightening with another.

Maybe your handwriting flows freely in one section but becomes cramped and tight in another.

These aren't distractions—they're data.

Your nervous system is giving you information about which paths feel genuinely right versus which ones just look good on paper.

Visual insights reveal what words alone cannot.

When you see your entire decision landscape at once, clarity emerges in ways that surprise the dedicated word nerds. 

You might discover that what felt like too many overwhelming options shake out into two core choices.

Or notice that your "practical" option is actually loaded with hidden emotional costs.

The density of information in different areas shows you where your real concerns lie.

What started as an impossible choice becomes an obvious next step—not because someone told you what to do, but because you finally see what was there all along.

Your Visual Decision Maker gives you a decision-making framework you can use every time you are caught overthinking.

And soon you'll be creating your own variations on what Brandy teaches.

Your $33 purchase includes: 

  • 7 short videos taking you step-by-step through the process
  • One-year access to keep using this tool again and again

Every day you wait is another day of mental exhaustion from cycling through the same choices without resolution.

Get Your Visual Decision Maker now

Getting started could not be more simple:

Purchase the exercise below for immediate video access.

Not ready now?  Schedule an hour or two of time for yourself.

Watch Brandy's welcome for what you'll need. (Nothing fancy.)

Press play on the life shaper videos and draw along.

Pause any time you need more time to reflect, write and draw.

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Hello, I'm Brandy Agerbeck.

I've spent 20+ years helping smart people get unstuck using visual thinking tools.

I designed this specific life shaper because I know exactly how it feels to be a helpful know-it-all for friends and colleagues, but a big ol' know-nothing with my own decisions. 

Here's what I've learned: 
Our brains needs to see decisions to make them.


When you make the invisible visible and tune into your intuition and body's wisdom, the decision becomes loud and clear. 

I've guided thousands through big, strategic decisions using these same visual techniques. This isn't theory—it's a proven process.

And Your Visual Decision Maker only takes a few basic materials and an hour or two of your time. 

The best part? You can tackle future problems with the same techniques again and again. 

Begin Your Visual Decision Maker today

Shape your life one drawing at a time. 

Every Life Shaper experience: 

Carves time out and creates a safe and welcoming self-care space to reflect and explore possibilities. Set a drawing date with yourself.

Makes space to be playful and messy. Put your Inner Critic in time out. Be free to be your squishy, fuzzy, imperfect self! 

Engages your brain and heart and hands and your whole self. This process lets all of you show up: messy and tidy, thinky and feeling, uncertain and steadfast. 

Puts the power of your thinking into your own hands. Get unstuck with a temporary sketch, or get down a long-term plan of action in ink. 

Invites you to take a critical and kind look at your own Big Picture. What are the piece and how do they connect? Notice what pieces are and aren't working

Opens you up to discovery and magic. Your new insights and clarity will shine light on where to go next!

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